"Culture" has been described as 'a way of life' encompassing ethnicity, spirituality and class. Within any culture there may exist a sub-culture or co-culture based on gender or age or class. In turn, our culture determines and guides our decisions and responses to the world.It is important to remember that the care givers basic role: "is to assist clients in understanding the ways their own worldview can provide strength, comfort, and meaning rather than attempting to impose another world view on them." (Doka, 1998).Our culture determines our 'world view' or 'assumptive world'. It guides our decision-making process and influences how we respond to the world around us.We will be examining cultural differences in the next few units, but if we are to understand the differences that exist in other cultures we must start from an understanding of our own 'death culture' and it's differences and its impact on our dying and mourning.Metcalfe and Huntington (1991) have pointed out the distinct ways in which the behavior of North Americans is influenced, and in some cases dictated, by cultural expectations. Think of how individuals behave, the protocol they observe, and the roles they accept upon the death of a loved one or as family and friends offering consolation at a funeral home.When a loved one dies in hospital, there are definite rules regarding notifying their family. Next of kin usually expect notification of the death from a physician. To be notified by a member of the administrative staff would be unacceptable.Who notifies who within the family and community follows a definite hierarchy. A brother of the deceased would not expect to be notified by a member of the deceased's bowling club or employer. At the very least, notification usually comes from someone with the same level of intimacy. The task of notification is usually broken up into manageable parts and delegated to members of the family or the community.Visitations or encoun...
